Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Right and left

I pose this question as a wife.
If you are a married guy, rephrase my sentences accordingly, ya!

When you lie down in bed facing up, is your husband on your left or right?
In the house, are you on even grounds with your husband or is he the dominating one?

12 comments:

Jaanvi said...

My hubby is on my left and we are on equal grounds... what does it say?

Moomykin said...

Well, hubby is usually on my left, but we sometimes change position in the middle of the night, as in we put our head at the foot of the bed instead. (This mainly has to do with my breastfeeding the baby in the night.)

It also depends on where we are. At hotels he'll sleep nearer to the phone... so that depends.

The more dominating...? Well I would say we are both on equal grounds. We discuss a lot of things before making decisions. We also try to give each other the space for personal preference.

hissychick said...

Hubby to the left. We're on equal ground...I decide and he agrees to do what I say LOL

Angeline said...

is this a personality test???

my hubby is on my right when I am facing up lying on my bed.

we are on the same ground... errr... actually we are dominating on different aspects, but we sort of blend in well, the ones that he is 'weak', I'm 'strong' in....

HI said...

Hubby is on my right. We are kinda on even grounds....but he says I'm the BOSS. lol

Something About Us said...

hubby neither on my left or right because we sleep with our 2 children.

and we are on equal grounds :)

Linda said...

hubby on my left, but now i sleep with my 2 children next door...
i think we are on equal ground, for big matters, we will discuss. for small matters and relating children, i made most of the decision. I don't interfere with his business. But we like to communicate and talks about everything (from kids to business to news and even gossip) when there is a chance.

Ann said...

Generally I found that women who sleep on the right of their husbands are on equal ground (or more) with their husbands.

Not a test, just an observation.

Thanks for your feedbacks

LittleLamb said...

the wife should manage the household while the husband is the ceo. u kacau for ceo for big decisions only..

my fav prov31

Daddy Parenting Tips said...

When woman say they are on equal ground with their husband, it usually mean they dominate the relationship :) It is hard to achieve a level playing field ... somehow someone needs to make the final decision. Of course the right way to do it, is at least for the men to show they care. When that is done, at least the women feel glad that the men who dominates is the one who cares. Right ladies?

Read more here
http://daddyparentingtips.blogspot.com/2009/01/tip-110-knowing-what-women-feel-they.html

4malmal said...

my hubby is too my left
not sure we r on even ground or not.
I say he dominates
He says I dominate ;)

Debbie Y said...

you know what, i'm completely agreed with what Daddy Parenting Tips.

btw, my hubby is on my right. Guess i'm the who dominate one.