They say 3 years into a marriage is a milestone.
Or perhaps it was the house and the kid.
But we have been having our share of issues.
So one night we talked for 3 hours.
It felt good to communicate.
And for it to end well.
Since then, hubby has been very sensitive to my needs.
He helps around so much more now
(without being asked to).
I understand better where is he coming from.
And try to also change myself to accommodate to his needs.
This year's V-day has been the best I had with hubby.
Maybe because it was really a celebration of something we have overcome together.
And it was good to have something to celebrate about.
Of course boyboy threw a few tantrums.
And of course we were still really busy with the house stuff.
But the stress is alright.
When it is just physical.
(And I get a nice massage after that anyway!)
We had dinner at Onsen for valentines.
Hubby wanted Japanese.
As long as there was something for boyboy, I was fine.
Boyboy was lovable.
He called and waved at all the waitresses and the head waiter.
So much so he got free ice cream.
And a line of people waving to him as we left the restaurant.
It was a good day.
It is good not to give up.
But to talk and give in.
I love my little family.